Infidelity can be traumatic and is one of the more challenging problems faced in a relationship.
Consider the following possible signs that your partner is not being faithful.
1. Changes in Communication
A breakdown in communication is never a positive sign. If you can’t get your spouse to communicate (or even fight) with you, there’s probably an issue.
The following signs might help: Ignores what you say, changes the subject to avoid an uncomfortable topic, refuses to answer questions.
2. Appearance and Hobbies
When hobbies are combined with other suspicious behaviors, the following changes may be cause for concern.
If your spouse is dressing nicer than usual or spends too much time at work than usual, they’re probably cheating.
3. Lying and Avoidance
Dishonesty in a marriage or relationship is a red flag.
If you feel as if you’re being avoided or your spouse seems more secretive, there’s a cause for caution.
When your spouse seems bored with you or not interested in family events such as birthdays, something might be going on that needs to be addressed.
5. Money Issues
Almost all relationships undergo some financial problems.
However, you may want to investigate certain money issues when you notice them in your marriage.
When you notice unexplained charges on your account or credit card, or your spouse no longer plans getaways they used to, there might be an underlying issue.
How to Deal With a Lying Spouse
In most cases, even when you confront your partner with accusations of cheating, it will be denied.
If you keep getting denial when trying to discuss your concerns with your partner, you may need to see a counsellor.
It is important to also put your own mental health first.
To keep up your strength and resolve, try your best to drink plenty of water, exercise, stick to a healthful diet.